Moving On

Hi, Randoms!
I've been so messed up lately like so duh. And this is the post I've owed one of my good friends from ages.

Moving on huh? A very sensitive topic yet it's so common in teenage lives of ours. When we try to get over the feelings we have for someone. Most people believe that moving on means liking someone else.

WRONG. Moving on isn't like that. Moving on simply means walking away, not moving from a pit stop to another.

You don't need to like other people just to overcome the sadness and forget the feelings for this special one. There's only one thing you need to do; embrace it.

Most people can't do this, because they're too scared of being hurt again. And the reasons why are various; they like people who don't like them back, they just broke up with the people they love, and so on. They think they've felt it all and they don't want to feel those flashbacks and stuff. But they're also suffering from the pain of being stuck in the same position.

If you're being logical, which one will you choose; being hurt for days, weeks, even months seeing that person being happy without you or with somebody else; or feeling a massive pain just for a moment but then you'll feel free and happier after that?

Here are simple tips from me :
1. Notice this; moving on doesn't mean you need to forget all your feelings or hate the person. Embrace the new beginning with arms and heart wide open. Try to let go slowly and don't hesitate in the middle
2. In some cases, people can't really move on seeing pictures or songs which remind them of their loved ones. If you feel like they aren't bothering then keep them just for memories. But if you can't move on because of them, you better delete or throw them away. It might hurt but actually works
3. Make yourself as busy as possible, doing things useful and don't let yourself think about them. Having a plenty of spare time can cause you thinking of them again.
4. Cheer yourself up. Eat your favorite food, do your favorite activities, watch some movies, hang out with close friends, shop, and do anything that makes you happy. Life is not all about love, heartbreaks, and romance. It's also about doing things that you like. Don't let yourself drown in sadness and pain. Remember; the best revenge is to show them how happy you are without them!
5. Convince yourself; this part doesn't mean you need to be playboys/girls. But to cheer yourself up and have fun with checking out girls and guys. Just a reminder; they're not the only ones for you. If they don't put any effort to keep you, then you don't deserve them.
6. Think about yourself. They're NOT the center of your world, although now they seem to be. But NO. There are more important things to think. Your future and your family. They're not the one who decide what you're going to be. Don't waste your time thinking about things which have passed. You still have a loooooong way to go ahead. Your adventure's not over just because you lose them.
7. Repeat this mantra : "Maybe I don't like him/her anymore." and smile after saying this sentence.

Okay, I know my tips sound cliche, but to be honest I managed to move on from guys by doing these things. I'm not that kind of person who easily falls for someone. And once I fall for someone, the feeling lasts for a long time and it WAS VERY HARD to let go of the feelings. But I keep repeating all the things I wrote and I did it.

I was in a very very massive pain in the process, but now I feel relieved. I feel free. I feel great. I feel heroic for saving myself from a long-lasting pain.

I hope all these steps work for you. They will, if you're willing to do them as well.

May your life be happy and beautiful, peeps!

-Abigail Gee

This is So Us!

Poem

Hi, I had a bunch of things to say, and I couldn't explain all of them by normal words, so I decided to write you guys a poem. I'm not a good poet but I hope you guy enjoy it!

Flowers bloom in the summer

meaning new hopes we trust on

To find lost dreams and young lovers

those were hidden in the Sun

Sun rises and then sets

it's so perfect with nothing lacks

No love, Darling, I deserve to get

other than your love for me, to the moon and back

We're like dandelions

flying without any place to go

But, Darling, as long as you're my companion

I'll be loved and safe I know

Safe and sound you'll hug me tight

until all the darkness goes by

Because with you it feels so right

I will laugh, dance and will not cry

I know this is just for now

but who knows? Only time will tell

Maybe someday we'll be tied in a vow

by a prayer our lips might spell

I want to stay in your arms

until I let go and fall asleep

With only you I can feel warm

that I can think of nice dreams so deep

Like the birds we fly so high

we're young and we cheer to our youth

No worries, Love, the only limit is the sky

there's still time to seek all the truth

I can't promise you eternity

or medicine to heal your sorrow and pain

Oh, I simply can't promise anything

but I'll always be the shelter for you when it rains

Okay, admit that the poet sucks. I know, I know.

This poem doesn't refer to anyone, but if you think that's you whom I'm talking about well it's up to you!

The point of this poet is:

We're young. We fall in love, we still seek for our true selves. We have faith in certain people. We have crush on someone, and everything that relates to teenage romance. We feel okay next to people we love. Keep in mind that nothing lasts forever, but the least you can do now is to start forever for the present.

Oh, here's some lyrics of my favorite old song. I feel like I'm so attached to this song.

You are my sunshine, my only sunshine

You make me happy when skies are grey

You'll never know, Dear, how much I love you

Please don't take my sunshine away

Love you always and always and always,

-Abigail Gee

My Supermodel : Third Season!

Hi, Peeps!
Remember my supah model, Bi Meng? She came to Balikpapan and moved in! Yay!
And after these few months, it seemed like she hasn't changed at all, lol.

She is still as narcissistic as usual. Last night when my parents weren't home, she suddenly appeared--believe me, she's like a ghost--in my room and asked me to take her pictures. I laughed a bit yet was excited to take her pictures. I took her pictures by using iPad, but the camera resolution just suck at night. Therefore I used the same technique I used back in the days (check my post 'My Supermodel : Second Season!' out for further explanation).

This season's theme is : Bohemian.

And just so you know, she was the one who came up with the ideas. She wanted to look poor, sad and everything typical so, uhm, yeah. I'm not a mean person.

And here are the pictures!

believe me, I didn't tell her to pose like this. she just posed.

she suddenly just laid on the floor. didn't tell her to, but it turned out good.

this is the broken doll pose, picturing starvation (?)

BEHIND THE SCENES.

Here are some additional pictures of me and Bi Meng in the 'photoshoot'!

In a true friendship, age, race, gender, or what family you're from never matter.

New friends are like silvers
Old friends are like golds,

-Abigail Gee

Apology

Hi, all!

I'm so sorry if any of my posts offends any of you. I really am.

I'm just a random blogger who likes writing yet sometimes a bit insensitive.

I love you guys and I don't want to offend or hurt all of you by my posts. Therefore, I deleted some parts of the post 'Sorry' which is a bit offensive and I realized that it was only for private consumption.

I'll post you something better later so stay reading!

I love you guys!

xoxo,

-Abigail Gee